Thursday, April 7, 2011

FAMILY DAY 2011

Date   :     4th April 2011

Dear Parents / Guardians,

RE : ANNUAL FAMILY DAY 2011

We are pleased to inform you that we will be holding our annual Family Day cum Mother Day Celebration on 30th April 2011 (Saturday) at Kota Kinabalu High School’s Multipurpose Hall from 8 a.m. to 12 noon.  Kindly note that for safety reason, our Pre-Junior (3 years old) children will not be participated in the event, however parents are welcome to join us for the gathering.

We have lined up a list of telematches for the children, parents with children and parents with teachers.  “The children will be giving a special presentation to all mothers for Mother’s Day celebration.”  In view of this, we are seeking your generous support to bring along some snacks or finger foods (Strictly No Pork) for the above gathering.  Teacher Gleen & Teacher Andrea, our food coordinators will be contacting you for further details.

We also request all parents to set aside your time and join us on the above mentioned day.  We look forward to welcome you and thank you once again for your continuous support.

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

MARCH 2011 NEWSLETTER

Greetings Parents / Guardians,

Times fly.  We have just finished our 1st Mid-Term School Break and we hope that parents have enjoyed a wonderful holiday with your children. I am sure that parents would notice the various progresses of your children, especially the development of physical abilities, language skills and self-control skills by now.  As parents, we want our children to succeed in life.  It is important to realize that our children need to be encouraged and need to develop a desire to learn where they feel like they can do anything they put their minds to.

Is television an important source of entertainment for you? Do you sit to watch television on reaching home from work? Do your children join you in watching daily soaps and reality shows? Since 1950s, television has become increasingly popular in every home and has greatly impacted each individual in the society.

The children of today watch television for long hours. Many a time, they spend their evenings watching their favorite programs. At times they even stayed up late to watch films on TV. This activity adds to their sedentary hours. The addiction to television deprives them of their time to play.  Moreover, watching television is detrimental to one's eyesight.

Some researchers claim that the attention deficit disorder in children is a result of watching television. They say that watching television leads to a developmental disorder in the part of the brain, which is responsible for language skills. Children, who watch television and read less, show difficulties in paying attention or concentrating.

People watching television, especially children and youngsters, start identifying with what is shown on TV. They relate to television shows and films to such an extent that they get bored of living a normal and simple life. They crave for fame and riches; they yearn for living the lives of their favorite TV characters. This may lead to a high amount of dissatisfaction in the masses. As real life is the contrast of the life portrayed on TV, such TV addicts become hungry for power, money and status. It has a severely negative impact on the minds of the watchers. Let us look at some of the negative effects of television.

Happy reading!

Children and TV: The Negative Effects of Television

Television has become a "member" of almost every single family on our planet. And not just an ordinary member, but a very important one, because the time spent next to it exceeds the amount of time spent together with any other family member. You do not have to apply any efforts to talk or listen to complaints while “communicating” with it. You do not have to play with your little son after a hard working day. You are SO tired! Can anybody respect that? You can simply turn on the TV and everything is done: kids are quiet, your wife is not complaining and you feel absolutely happy. It is so simple that it has become an integral part of the culture of every family. It is the only time, when a person can forget about all the family troubles and the failures of the day. The sofa opposite the TV set has become the place of “reconciliation and spiritual unity” of the family.

And instead of playing together and having emotional talks, people prefer to watch an episode from a thriller. It is senseless to deny the all-embracing negative effect the existence of television has brought to our lives. But to make our point of view ultimately convincing, we will introduce to your attention certain facts that people do not want to accept and often try to justify. The base of the tomorrow’s society – are children today. And on the way they develop depends how are world is going to look like tomorrow. The television’s negative effect facts that are well known to every single parent, but are ignored by them in order to put the responsibility for bringing up kids and showing them examples through interaction on the shoulders of somebody else. Contemporary parents work a lot, but when they come back home they are not eager to spend time with their child, the consequences of this fact are the following: kids are given to themselves and watch everything they want or TV plays a role of a babysitter. Therefore children learn moral principles from the television, where by the age of 16 they observe 100,000 violent acts and 33,000 murders.

The models of life interactions given in the television are very exaggerated and garbled. Children learn that they can gain what they want through being stronger and subordinating other people that they can become popular through killing and that even if you are a “good” guy killing is o.k. Statistics have proved that the growth of time spent next to the TV-set scales up the development of aggression. Many years before the examples of imitation for children were their own parents; now these examples come from hit-thrillers and violent films where the personages imitated are cruel, impartial and often purely negative personages. Nowadays, resulting this phenomenon, children instead of playing leap-and–frog on the open air pretend to be “terminators” and run around “killing” each other. The fact of child’s identification with a “negative” destructive image has a vital impact on the development of his or her personality. Violence becomes an ordinary way of interaction, alongside with anger.

Early exposure to sexual scenes may lead to early sexual contacts, with destroy the healthy development of a child. Young people are pressured by such an amount of sexual scenes and these scenes normalize casual sexual encounters. They do not to evaluate what they see – they take it as the reality. All the listed above may cause a trauma to a young consciousness and in combination with the violence may produce an unbalanced and unhealthy conduct. We do not have to go far away for examples when kids get guns and go to their schools shooting their teachers and schoolmates. This becomes a call to get somebody’s attention on them, the result of the TV violence and examples influences that overfills their minds. Television has also a great influence on the self-image of people watching it. We see perfectly shaped bodies hundreds of times per day. All the men shown on the TV screen have big muscles and are handsome, and all the women shown are very skinny and their faces and bodies look like a complete perfection. This has caused numerous eating disorders, especially in the teenage group. Such things as bulimia, anorexia and self-mutilation became a well-spread phenomenon.

A person, especially a child that spends a lot of time next to the TV-set has a very high probability of damaging the eye mechanics and the ability to focus and pay attention. Another negative influence that is connected with the sight is the spoiling of the hearing due to the shortage of auditory stimulation. Even if the programs watched are not violent, if they are watched per hours may have a deep impact on the personality, causing psychological and physiological problems. All the hidden effects in the films and commercials subconsciously depress children and grown-ups. Another reaction of a child to the TV violence besides his aggression is fair.

A child or a person may become so much scared of what they had observed in the television that it might cause their depression and emotional misbalance. Television prevents children from doing their homework and adults from completing their work, influencing in a very bad manner the school grades and work productivity. It lowers the overage level of physical fitness of a person, breaking the coordination. Children being attached to the TV-set loose the possibility to learn the world through real nature, games, sports, etc. They do not feel the world with all its colors and peculiarities. They do not read, and get acquainted with the unforgettable characters of Robinson Crusoe or Tom Sawyer. They do not learn the messages that a book carries inside. Due to that, the personality of a person loses a very important piece and may not be called complete. Television has converted our lives into a nightmare. It is a nightmare where violent television performs the role of the parents. What else can be said to show that television destroys the healthy development of a child’s personality. All the negative effects listed above concern grown-ups as well, but through the special sensitivity of children towards the influences we wanted to show to the full destructive power of television. It has turned our lives into an addiction that suppresses the beauty of our real life by the violent substitution. And can without any doubts be called one of the worst inventions of modern times.